I was supposed to have this posted yesterday but I was flat on my back, and not in a good way. I don’t think I have the flu, I have no fever, but I feel like crap. Muscle aches, headache, crabby, sniffly, sneezy and coughing. I’m sure it’s a cold because I have been eating liverwurst for two days. If it were the flu I wouldn’t be able to do that. I don’t usually eat liverwurst but it reminds me of my mother and I think I really want someone to take care of me right about now. Liverwurst is the closest I could get.
There will be no pictures of me today.
Getting back to baby assed smooth skin. When I visited Becky at Stormsister Spatique I had a forehead full of acne. I never had acne as a teen, in fact I have always had really nice skin. Five years ago I developed acne on my forehead. I attributed it to the stress from my divorce and didn’t bother doing too much to fix it. The divorce lasted for two years and as soon as that ended I entered a whole new realm of stress when my father died and I was caring for my mom. The stress was ratcheted up another notch when it was time to move my mom to a care facility. For the last year I have had considerably less stress but the acne still didn’t go away. I tried all sorts of products, department store brands and drugstore brands. Nothing made much of a difference. My acne was never a priority but it did bother me. I could cover it up with make-up but I knew that was no answer.
So when I showed up at Becky’s shop Stormsister, I wasn’t really even thinking about my zits. I was thinking about my hair but she took one look at my forehead and asked me what I was using. She suggested I had been drying my face out trying to dry out the zits which was really causing my face to produce more oils and causing more acne. I knew I was drying my face out but putting more cream on my face seemed counter intuitive. Becky asked me to trust her and gave me a sample of Equavie cleansing milk.
Again Becky wanted me to use up the products I had and slowly begin to incorporate the new products in so we started with just the cleansing milk.
The first night I washed my face with the cleansing milk and then my regular facial soap. This was wrong because the soap stripped off all of the softness the cleansing milk left behind. I was confused by the process and emailed her right away saying I was doing it wrong and needed some help. She emailed me back, told me to take a deep breath and suggested that I just use the cleansing milk and see how that made my skin feel.
The next morning I tried it again. I used only the cleansing milk and some moisturizer she had also given me. The cleansing milk left my skin hydrated. It felt smooth and soft, I didn’t feel as if I had just had a face lift because my skin was so dry and tight. It was a weird feeling to say the least. I was afraid that my skin was too greasy, that I hadn’t cleaned it sufficiently and told Becky as much. She again asked me to trust her and to continue using the product for a week. She cautioned me that I might break out due to the change of product but to see it through the whole week.
I didn’t break out. In fact my acne cleared up in about three days.
Becky had also given me some samples for my son to try. He does have a fair amount of acne, being a teen who works in a pizza parlor, and wasn’t having much luck with the drugstore products I had gotten for him. She gave him a cleanser, a moisturizer and a sample of a mask. When I saw the mask I mentioned that he was not likely to use it but that I would present the products to him and let him do what he wanted.
He balked at the mask immediately. Made several comments about how he was not a chick. I just told him to give it a shot, explained that it would draw out the dirt and oils from his face and then let him do as he pleased.
In my email conversations with Becky I mentioned that he wasn’t too excited about using girly products. Her response was: “As soon as they realize they will not grow a vagina when they use these products they tend to get with the program and are happy with the results.”
Sure enough, he did not grow a vagina and his skin cleared up within a week.
I have to add here that Becky made one more suggestion. She said that as long as both of us were suffering from acne that I needed to be a lot more fastidious about washing the pillow cases. I wash the sheets once a week but never considered that our pillow cases might be part of the problem. I do a lot of wash during the week so adding our pillow cases when ever I washed was no big deal. I’m sure that washing the pillow cases frequently that first week contributed significantly to both of our faces clearing up so quickly. It’s been nearly a month, I don’t wash the pillow cases but once a week now and our skin is still clean.
My skin is soft, smooth and the few wrinkles I had been developing appear to be reduced. I’m more hydrated now so it makes sense. I don’t think I can turn back time and erase the slight crows feet I have, and frankly I don’t want to, I earned these wrinkles on my face and I wear them proudly. In addition to using a product that doesn’t dry out my skin I have been trying to get off the Diet Crack and drink more water. I know this helps too. I live in a mean climate. Cold and dry in the winter and hot and humid in the summer. My face takes a beating but the Equavie makes it feel wonderful. This product might not be for everyone so check with Becky and tell her what your climate and skin is like. She will be able to assist you in finding the product that suits you best.
I must also mention that the moisturizer that Becky gave me was from the Phytoceane line. She gave me five different samples so I couldn’t tell you which one made a difference. I do know they are marine based rather than plant based. Why that makes a difference I don’t know, ask Becky.
My son has still not grown a vagina.
Becky is still offering a 20% discount on all of her products, just mention this post if you go into the store or enter REDHEAD at the checkout online at Stormsister Spatique.
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Well, how cute are you!? Two posts? I think I’m in love.
Thank the Jesus your son has not grown a vagina! I grew 3 boys in my house (plus a dog) and they are all vagina free. Whew!
Some Becky Rules:
If you have acne on your forehead, it may also be because of haircare products. Specifically, the styling products. Store brands are usually the culprit. Sorry, professional is better, deal with it.
Skin NEEDS to be cleansed and moisturized 2 times per day. If not, your pillowcase should be changed daily as your face is spending many hours immersed in bacteria.
Use a bacteria wipe on your cell phone 1 time per day.
If you are older than 30-35, no more foaming/soapy cleansers. Use milk and cream cleansers only.
Look for the words “high fructose corn syrup” , “corn syrup” in anything you eat and drink. Really read labels. You’ll be surprised what it is in. Gradually cut that ingredient out of your diet. Look for alternatives of the same food/drink. They’re out there.
HFCS is basically sugar crack and our bodies are addicted.
The bacteria that is involved with the acne making process, candidea, feeds on sugar.
Questions? Please email me at becky(at)stormsister(dot)biz
Cheers!
I’m happy to hear your son is vaginaless. Cracked me up.
I once had a spa technician tell me the same thing about not moisturizing my face enough. I guess we just can’t get over that whole Stridex astringent pad thing from the 70’s, eh? Always thought you had to dry that sucker out, but all it does, as you say, is create more grease. Glad you found a good solution to the problem.
And I hope you feel better soon. I’m still feeling like crap from a cold that started Saturday. Feel for ya.
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Have you heard of the “herd effect?” A neonatologist just told me (I work in a hospital) that if you are near someone who had the h1n1 mist or flu, the “herd effect” can kick in – giving people AROUND THEM antibodies against the virus. So you might have h1n1, but just milder b/c your body has been fighting it already and gaining antibodies for a week. Just a thought. Just keep eating that liverwurst, but keep your breath away from me, will ya? 😉 (I remember as a child seeing mom eat liverwurst with onions. I tried it and loved it. Then when I realized as a teen it was LIVER I never ate it again.)
I have to say, Becky is a GODDESS of everything beauty!!! Boy does she know her stuff. I’m having a hard time with the “don’t wash your hair every day” but I’m doing it! I got my curlykinky too. Will ask her about face products for my next paycheck.
I never thought there would be someone else that says, “I earned my wrinkles!” I did that AND got some gray hair… each child takes away my brain cells and adds wrinkles and gray hair.
I will have to send you a picture in a month of my fabulous hair and my nifty babyA skin!
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Seriously the madness has got to stop. What is with all these links? I get more spam than I ever thought possible. I had 166 spam comments on my “I’m Moving” post. I never had spam on Blogger.
I didn’t make it clear but I wash my sheets and pillow cases once a week, ok some times I get a little lazy and push it out to a week and a few days but I always wash the pillow cases when I wash the sheets.
Becky, as soon as I get off the Diet Crack I’ll start working on the HFCS.
Kathy, I saw that picture of you from your sick post and I feel the same way, actually I really look the same way. What impresses me is that you are still able to leave comments. I used Stridex, Noxema and remember Love’s Baby Soft? I loved the way that smelled, I’m pretty sure it would gross me out now, and the bottle was so phallic!
Katherine, I really believe in the placebo effect so I’m all for this herd effect. I’d like to think I’ve been fighting off something. Becky is indeed a goddess, she really knows her stuff and her sense of humor cracks me up.
No worries Katherine. Even if you switch from every day shampooing to every other day, you are going to help your hair….and your wallet. After you have the every other day routine mastered, then throw in another day of rinsing or “cowashing”.
It’s all about baby steps.
Hello Jen..Hope everything is well with you now..I have my baby girl with me now..I just delivered her last Oct 23rd..
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Sorry to hear you’re feeling so icky.
The herd effect? I’ve never heard of the herd effect. My husband has been sick for the last 2 weeks – not sure what it is, but I haven’t caught it yet. I’ve felt questionable a couple of times, like I was going to get sick, then I’d down the tea, zicam and airborne and be OK for 2 more days (I don’t know if that’s helping, but I’m not getting sick…..yet.)
Also – Great news about your skin. – Yay!
Vicy, Congratulations, thank you so much for taking the time when you must be so tired to stop by and let me know you and your daughter doing well. Congratulations, try to get some sleep!
Margaret, If it means I will be less sick I’m a believer. I just found out that taking statins, like Lipitor, which I take due to my thyroid problem, helps lessen the symptoms of the flu. I’ll take whatever I can get.
Oooh, so sorry you are not feeling well.
I am quite experienced with herds….
I am lucky in my skin. I never was a sunworshipper so I think that was a big part. Never had much acne – that went to my brothers. I am glad you have found something that is making you feel erm, smooth.
First of all I’m sorry you are feeling so poorly – so much crap is going around and I certainly hope you feel better fast!! I love the acne story and that the products worked so well for you – I started developing strange bumps on my face until I began using Philosophy products – I don’t know if they clean better or what but it’s wonderful to find something that works – and now I, too have softer nicer skin. Except for my neck which is starting to resemble a turkey and I’m tempted to get the electric knife out, cut off the offending skin and throw it to the birds out back. Ugh. I’m so happy your son still doesn’t have a vagina – that could be so traumatic for him and kids have enough problems these days ya know. Hugs!
Philosophy is a very good line.
There are some great products out there for “turkey neck”. My favorite? Vie Collection Facial Curve Lift Concentrate: http://www.stormsister.biz/product1/phytomer/vie%20facial%20curve.html
Before you invests in a cream for your neck don’t forget to moisturize that area. It is often missed.
If after 6 months of using Philosopy, as directed, including on your neck, you still don’t like the look of your decollette’, then consider the investment of a product such as the Facial Curve.
If after a month or so of using it you are not happy with the results, there are some laser (light therapy) techniques that are great for tightening as well. But , that or any surgical procedure should only be considered once you follow the best skincare regimen for several months.
Many times a quality skincare regimen remedies many issues.
feel better!
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