you're either part of the solution or part of the problem, if you aren't part of the solution you are part of the problem, If you know your kid is a bully and do nothing to stop it, you are part of the problem.

If you are a bully and blame it on being bullied, you are still part of the problem.

If you are in politics and keep passing stupid laws to make people jump through burning hoops, you are part of the problem.

If you are a politician in Minnesota who wants to amend the constitution to ban gay marriage you aren’t just part of the problem, you are the problem.

If you are a media outlet and your lead story is about Arnold Schwarzenegger you are part of the problem.

If you troll news website and leave mean and nasty comments anonymously, you are part of the problem.

If you are a mother who criticizes other mothers because they don’t breast feed the right way, or at all, don’t feed their kids the stuff you feed them and basically tear them down because you think you are better, you are part of the problem. You are also a bully.

If you are a divorced dad who pays child support on time and without complaint, you are part of the solution.

If you are also that divorced dad and you make time for your kids, you are part of the solution.

If you are a divorced mom who lets the anger and hurt go, you are part of the solution.

If you are a divorced mom who includes the divorced dad in things like school events, holidays, graduations, weddings and any other event that only happens once, you are part of the solution.

If you are a teenager who stands up to mean kids on behalf of another teen, you are part of the solution.

If you believe that we should all live and let live, you are part of the solution.

 

 

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